Can a female colleague tell a male about colleague about his zip of pant open until they are close friends?

i do not wish to sound mean but you need to grow up and act your age.no matter if it was a friend, colleague, or someone on the streets, it is human nature to let some one know that their zipper is undone, your boyfriend is right, you are wrong,. sound like you are a control freak, ease up on that. if not, you will lose your boyfriend. Think before you speck......